The best and the worst of someone can be seen on the battlefields of the court room, the parental visitation pick-up sites, and -forbid- social media.
I know men that basically still take care of their Ex. They make sure that their family, married or not, is taken care of. The kids have fun stuff, the lawn stays mowed, the kids take part in extracurricular activities even if they fall on the statute Wednesday. Some of them even take vacations with their ex and share the holliday table. They have both gotten remarried, and still they keep the family together.
I did not get an EX like that.
However, I think it says a great deal about someone who keeps up on their responsibilities like that.
Of course I think it depends on your situation. I wouldn't blame my friend whose wife cheated on him if he didn't want to take her on vacations.
Yeah . . .
But, I think a lot about a person can be shown by how they go through a divorce.
If I were to date a divorced person seriously, I would insist on reading the paperwork.
