Rickie and the Flash/ spouses who cheat and leave

I went to see Rickie and the Flash and though I would not suggest you make a point of seeing this movie unless it was on TV, free, nothing else was on, and hopefully a bit edited, I did think it had value for a post. That sounds harsher than I meant it to be. 

There is a character in the movie who is grieving over the loss of her cheating husband. She takes his infidelity pretty roughly and completely "Lets herself go."

The whole time I am thinking, "Don't let him do this to you!" and "No more tears over such a creep!" and "Move on!" 

Though these things are easier said than done. Because we open ourselves up for an honest, true love experience which means that it hurts when the relationship goes south. 

But really what else could you have done if you wanted your marriage to have a chance? You have to open up your heart. 

Maybe it is hard to remember, maybe it is a hard thing to put into practice, but don't let your ex's stupid decisions bring you down. 

If you had a friend who's husband left them for another woman you wouldn't be telling her not get over him. You'd be comforting her and telling her that it was his loss and that he was a creep for cheating on her.

So, if this is your situation, take what would be your own advice!