Watch how your spouse treats his Ex.

Watch how your spouse treats his ex. Because if you ever get divorced, that is how he will treat you. 

I know what you're saying: "But we won't ever get divorced!" "His ex wife was crazy!" or "He actually loves me!"

I hope that you never get divorced. It isn't much fun at all! But I'd bet your husband and his ex thought those same thoughts once upon a time too. Of course there are unforeseeable circumstances that cause divorces, but no one gets married planning to divorce. 

So, how does he treat his ex? Even if you're right and she is crazy, does he treat her with respect? Is he a decent human being to her? 

I know some men who are the nicest, most helpful ex-husbands a girl could ever dream of. They are still there when needed, they really support their kids, they are still nice.

I also know men who are NOT nice to their ex-wives. They try to get out of supporting their kids, they are rude, etc.

So, which one is your husband? 

Or, better yet, pay attention to how your boyfriend treats his ex wife. You want someone who, no matter the circumstances, is pleasant and reasonable. You can be in the middle of a very nasty court battle and still be decent when around each other. 

Hopefully you will never get divorced. But still pay attention to how he treats his ex. Know what kind of man you are dealing with.